Book Review: We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life’s 20 Questions
When I first stumbled across We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life’s 20 Questions, I was instantly drawn in by the powerful trio behind it—Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. As a regular listener to their podcast, I’ve always appreciated their raw honesty and the connections they create through deep conversations. But I was curious: could they distill their wisdom into a tangible guidebook that could hold my hand through life’s complex landscape? Spoiler alert: they absolutely did.
This book is more than just a collection of answers; it’s a heartfelt distillation of shared wisdom for those of us grappling with our own journeys in love, grief, joy, parenting, and every messy bit in between. The backdrop of profound personal struggles—Glennon’s battles with anorexia, Amanda’s breast cancer diagnosis, and Abby’s devastating loss—adds a layer of authenticity that resonates deeply. It’s a reminder that vulnerability often opens the door to meaningful connections and insights.
At its core, We Can Do Hard Things is structured around 20 pivotal questions that many of us find ourselves asking, often in the stillness of the night. Questions like, "How do I know what to do?" and "Why can’t I be happy?" echo our collective uncertainties. Each chapter feels like a conversation with an old friend—warm, nurturing, and bursting with empathy. The authors’ voices intertwine beautifully, offering a blend of personal anecdotes, cultural references, and the profound wisdom of 118 brilliant wayfinders.
One of the standout features of this book is the way it blends both the authors’ experiences with those of other influential figures. It’s not just about Glennon, Abby, and Amanda. Their insightful dialogues with icons—ranging from Jane Fonda to Roxane Gay—create an expansive tapestry of perspectives that make you feel less isolated in your struggles. I found particularly resonant quotes from Elizabeth Gilbert, who reminds us that “Your life is your story, and the adventure ahead of you is the journey to fulfill your own purpose and potential.”
The writing style is conversational and engaging, with a warm authenticity that makes you feel like you’re sitting down for coffee with trusted friends. The pacing flows easily, transitioning from heavy topics to lighter musings, keeping the reader engaged. Each chapter offers not just answers but space for reflection, inviting readers to pause and ponder alongside the authors.
So, who is this book for? If you’re someone navigating the messy intricacies of life—be it in relationships, career, or your inner self—this guidebook offers solace and guidance. It’s perfect for anyone who needs reassurance that they’re not alone in their struggles. Even if you’re simply seeking inspiration for personal growth, We Can Do Hard Things will resonate deeply.
Reading this book not only reinforced the importance of community and shared experiences in overcoming life’s challenges but also reminded me that we all have the tools within us to navigate through difficulties. As I closed the last page, I felt a renewed sense of connection, not just to my own journey but to the universal experiences we all share. This book isn’t just a guide; it’s a companion for the road ahead.
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